Saturday 17-07-2021 – building a relationship (continued)

Last week we were looking at the possible interventions that Manoj and Riya could undertake so that they could improve their marital relationship.

It is often important to process the negative experiences – to talk them through, resolve them, understand each other’s stance, and seek forgiveness. The deepest bond comes out of such a mutual understanding. You minimize the psychic scarring. You have to work to overcome your negative tendencies and gradually unfreeze the labels that have weakened the basic structure. It is likely that in the course of the rebuilding process, there will be some incidents that will hurt either one of you.